When I was a kid, there used to be a lot of fishes in a bank beside the rice field or what you call, the paddy field. Today, the banks got larger but there wasn't any fishes. It is said there were poisoned by pesticides that was drained down to the bank from the paddy during raining season.
However so, it was really to feel the winds passing by you. It was just relaxing. Back then when the paddy field was dry, we played the traditional wau and flew really high. Since the wind was strong, so it was pretty fun.
Our life is really full of crossroads.
You just don't know where they could have lead you. Or you become profuse which one you should chose. We had a hard time to think or decide, as it would affect our own future probably. But what I specify about isn't necessarily on education. What I scope about on is life on its own, generally.
You ever thought about what you really wanted to become? Have your eyes close for a second, or just imagine. What can you become in the next 20 years? Who knew. Maybe I would sound like an old man saying this, but it is better to realize it in a younger age. It is better that way because we would have minimize the mistakes we would do.
Hold on for a second. One thing we must realize is that we are humans. We made mistakes. Be it stupid, bold or clever one, but nobody would run away from it.
There is a Japanese proverb have said "We learn little from victory. Much from defeat." Meaning we constantly know that success or to overcome something is to go through pain, shame, awkwardness and defeat of mistakes.
Nevertheless that, should we never use the excuse and the saying "Humans are not perfect." Because generally we do have limitations. But "making" a limitations by saying "I cannot do it" or "I feel I cannot do so" for indefinite reasons is something unacceptable.
Humans could do extraordinary things. It's just that we didn't know it any better, to make the full use of it. And all it starts from is the opportunity then trying to do it.
Returning to what I really what to talk about is crossroads. We actually do have choices. But probably we just couldn't see it.
When we were enjoying with our friends, do we really know that one day they will forget or leave us?
We never knew what have they said. Probably it would cause a little uneasiness to us.
When we love someone from the opposite gender, do we actually know when the he or she will never follow your shadow anymore?
When we knew the love was not for you or that person, do we accept the truth?
It is bitter truth. There are many hidden things in the world people hides their thoughts, we do not know.
So why run away from troubles you went through and avoid from knowing the truth? Everything is a gamble. Either you win or loss, you started the game.
In other words, strength is what we need to face up the next day challenge. Don't be afraid to try something or making mistakes and don't be afraid of what's coming out. Accepting may took time. But never back down. The moment you fall, you know that you have to stand up back.
That's all for today for I've thought. I wrote this so you could become happy and have a happier life. I myself too, made mistakes. I wrote for myself and everyone.
;)
Asyraf Amir. 2012.
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